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Healthy Relationships Videos & Articles


Bidding for Connection
In all relationships, we bid for connection to the other person, as defined by Dr. John Gottman in his book The Relationship Cure. So, what does it mean to bid for connection? Every single interaction in a relationship is considered a bid for connection. And how we respond to each bid, molds the relationship and defines how we feel about ourselves and the relationship. There are 3 ways to respond to bids for connection: turning towards, turning against, and turning away. Enjo
Heather Melville
Aug 13, 2024


Self-Love: The Main Ingredient to All Healthy Relationships
Self-love is so important for everything in your life, it affects others, and it especially makes a different in your relationships. This...
Heather Melville
Aug 6, 2024


Rebuilding Trust in Yourself After a Bad Relationship
After a relationship has ended, especially a bad one, we don't realize all the damage that has occurred, such as losing trust in yourself...
Heather Melville
Jul 30, 2024
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