TELL ME IF THIS IS YOU ...
The relationship ended. Your brain didn't get the memo.
You're high-functioning on the outside, unraveling on the inside, and exhausted from carrying weight that was never yours. Been there. Got out. Built a method.
Mentally replaying conversations like a true crime podcast (starring you as the suspect & victim)
Doubting your own memory, instincts and reality on the daily
Googling his birth chart at 1am to explain the unexplainable
Quietly terrified you'll magnetize another version of him
You don't need more time. You need the right map — and a guide who's actually walked it.
Hi, I'm Heather Melville
Equal parts mirror and straight-talking ally. Zero shame.
I once mistook chaos for chemistry and red flags for personality quirks. Healing didn't come from another self-help book or a 10-step Instagram carousel — it came from a real, structured process that handed me back my self-trust (and a sense of humor).
Now I walk women like you through that same process — warm, smart, a little irreverent — so you don't have to spend a decade decoding it alone.
Certified Relationship Recovery Coach
Always studying the latest recovery research
Featured on 10+ Podcasts
Lived experience + professional training
HOW WE WORK TOGETHER
A 4-pillar journey home to you
A 1:1 coaching container that meets you exactly where you are — no spiritual bypassing, no rushing, no "just manifest it" nonsense.
01
Heal & Become Aware
Process what happened, release the weight of the past, and finally see the patterns — including the red flags you'll never miss again.
02
Build Self-Love & Confidence
Reconnect with your worth, your passions and the qualities that make you you — then build daily rituals that keep that voice loud.
03
Get Clear on Goals & Values
Define what a healthy relationship actually looks like for you — your needs, your non-negotiables, your vision for the life you're building.
04
Sharpen Skills & Strategies
Boundaries that hold, communication that lands, dating apps used with discernment — the practical tools to date (and live) from wholeness.
WOVEN THROUGH ALL 4 PILLARS
Support, reflection & adaptation
Ongoing 1:1 support, honest reflection on your progress, and a method that flexes with you — so the work keeps working long after our calls end.
“I started working with Heather when my life was upended by divorce and needed a compass. I needed to make changes in my life as well as cope with grief.
Her own self confidence was reassuring and helped me reestablish my own. She's so authentic and honest as she listens and provides feedback and directives towards making changes.
I wouldn't be where I am without her and whole-heartedly recommend working with her, especially if you're looking for answers and a new path coming out of a long-term relationship.”
- Niki E.
Testimonials
“In a single encounter, finding someone who leaves an indelible mark on your life is rare. Yet Heather has done just that. In the brief time I have known her, she exuded a sense of friendliness that immediately put me at ease, a rare quality that allowed me to open up about my personal experiences.
Her approach was professional and profoundly personal, as she generously shared her journey, which encouraged open and honest communication, making me feel understood and far from alone. She helped me find practical solutions for real change. They have been instrumental in helping me navigate my relationship with a renewed sense of purpose and understanding.
For anyone seeking guidance in their relationship, Heather is your guiding light, a friendly, trustworthy individual who will share in your experiences and equip you with the wisdom to conquer your challenges.”
- Mylene M.
“Heather really lifted me up with her positivity. She is a great listener and gives tremendous, loving energy.”
- Lydia P.
“Heather' coaching was like talking with a near and dear friend.
She was interested, listened, and was so loving in her questions and suggestions.
Even though I had never met her before, my feeling is, that we got so close”
- Tove D.
